You know what a mother and a father means to their children? It means everything, it means the world wholly. How a child defines perfect is by having their mother and father by their side, only that they know everything else doesn't really matter as long as they have them. And now can you imagine a child's feeling without one of them? Can you?
Out of the blue, I'm thinking of writing this after reading a tweet from my friend. To make me realize how significant the present of father in a daughter's life.
She said she once envy seeing a girl sitting with her father in a park, eating fries and nuggets and tell her father how her days going, school, friends, teacher, boy, and everything. Her father, seems so interested in listening every single word that came out from her, with his hands sometimes wipe the smudge sauce on her mouth. SHE, never had the chance to do that. SHE. Never had the feeling how good it feels.
Having father by her side will tell her that she is the most beautiful girl in the world, and she deserves one beautiful life after all. A father chased away the insecure inside her that things gonna work out one day just like her mother and father did. The feeling that she's actually worth it.
If i were about to choose the 'him' in my life, I'm not gonna choose only a husband for me but a FATHER to my children.